Stay At Home Wife Single Mother Finesse Been Lying To Men About It Being Hard I DONT BELIEVE YOU

➡ The speaker argues that the task of being a stay-at-home mother is not as difficult as some make it out to be. He supports his claim by listing off the numerous tasks he completes in a day—from work meetings to household chores—while also being a present parent, and challenges the narrative that stay-at-home mothers have it significantly harder.

I now see, I now see why women don’t want to go out of town by themselves. Hear me out. Hear me out. Shout out to Colin. I’m definitely gonna be reading the super chat shortly. I now see why women, they didn’t even want men to work from home when they started working from home during the pandemic. They don’t want you to work from home now. They want you to go out, have a good time, go out, bring home resources and then come out, come on back home at the end of the night and lay up with you.

They do. Look, I’m not going for it anymore. And every time that my chick go out of town and this is no indictment to her, and let me be very clear. And let me tell you why. Because I have no problem with holding my chick accountable too. She’ll tell you that. I’ll hold her accountable. This is not an indictment to her because she’s not one of the women that’s professing that life is more difficult as a result of being a mother or being a stay at home mother or any of that.

She’s advocating for it. She will tell you, hey, I live the soft life. I ain’t got to worry about nothing. I get up when I want to. I do what I want to. I answer emails when I want to. So I’m going to remove her out of this conversation. But I have to use this as an example in order to emphasize my point, right? And she’s down having fun and birthday parties and visiting family and all of this other type of stuff.

And so me and my daughter has been holding it down. And let me just say this. I do not in any way, shape or form, and I always am reminded of this when we have to be a little bit separate and she goes out of town and I’m with my daughter, whatever. I don’t feel sorry for none of you, all single mothers, not one bit. I certainly don’t feel sorry for stay at home mothers, not one bit.

And the other thing, this is the third point that I want to make before we get into the show. Why y’all want to be so independent? I’m just curious. When you don’t have a man, you comply, you complain. When you do have a man, you complain. And I’m trying to figure out why you all want to be so independent. Let me tell you something. Before 11:00 a. m.

, today, and this is on a regular basis, I had got up, did meetings, did a coaching call prepared for the show, worked with my editors, tapped in with my overseas developers for the web development company, went out, scouted a property, made a phone call, bought a new car. Listen, I did. I bought a new Porsche, but I bought the new cayenne. It’s a new 2024 Cayenne. You guys will get the video.

I’m recording the video. I’m going to release it to you guys, and I’m going to drop it on the Anton Daniels camp channel. Got them red guts. That red interior. It’s beautiful. It’s beautiful. So, yes, I did buy a new raptor Bronco, and then I just bought a new Porsche Cayenne truck. And I’m not getting rid of any of my cars, so I’m just buying it to add to the collection because it’s a work truck and it’s in my business name or whatever, right? But also went, bought a new truck, secured that by sending over the money to that so they can get it cleaned up and have it delivered to me.

Took my daughter to school, which she drove. Right? Took my daughter to school, went grocery shopping, made dinner, also picked up some cup. Yes, I picked up cupcakes, too. We’re going to have cupcakes today. Yes, me and my daughter is also going to have some cupcakes today. Made dinner, right? Cleaned up the house, had the maintenance guy come in and check on the dryer to make sure that it was working properly.

So he cleaned out the vents and did all of that. And my entire day is already set for. And I’m chilling and I’m live streaming, and I had meetings at work where I had to make sure that everybody had all of their deliverables and the team was taking care of business. And so what I’m trying to understand is, what are you all sitting here whining and complaining about? I don’t understand.

I made dinner. Why y’all acting like you all got it hard? Why y’all acting like y’all doing something so special? Why y’all acting like y’all need to be paid $10,000 a month in alimony or child support in order for you to be able to do what you supposed to do. I don’t feel sorry for you. I don’t feel sorry for you. We good. You all not doing nothing any more special or unique.

If you telling me that what you do is harder than what men do on a regular basis, especially the men that I know that’s going out and taking care of business. You cap. You cap. You are absolutely, positively cap. I don’t believe you. You need more people. I do not believe you. You need more people. Y’all ain’t doing nothing special. Y’all not doing nothing all day. Listen, you can’t tell me that you are grinding and getting it all day or that you just so.

Oh, my God. And all of this other type of stuff. Y’all live the soft life. Even if you are a single mother that is working, you live the soft life. I am not impressed by the fact that you are a single mother. You going to have to come with something else now because I see what it takes, and I know what it takes in order to be successful while also being a present parent that is active in my daughter’s life on a regular basis and the entire time since she was a little teeny baby that was first born all the way up until being almost 16 years old, about to have a birthday and get her license.

I am not impressed. You’re not going to sit here and tell me about how difficult it is. Oh, my God. Being a stay at home mother is such a difficult thing when where you all sit up, chill, drink wine, have a good time. Oh, my God. But we got to prepare the children snacks. You’re going to have to miss me with that one, homie. You got to miss me with that one.

Listen, family, for these women, married, single, all across the board, for these women that is trying to convince you, trying to convince you that they should not be working, I’m not going for it. Now, if she’s doing something thing that adds value into the business or whatever, so on and so forth, or you want that autonomy for her to be able to move back and forth and take care of this or take care of the Daughter, then.

Okay, cool. Whatever. Do whatever it is that you feel like you need to do. If she’s not working for you, whatever. But these women that’s just sitting around doing nothing, she don’t even work for you. You don’t have no position. She not add no value, and she ain’t got no job. Man, you better put that chick to work. She using you, fam. She using you. You not gonna sit here and tell me that it’s cool she’s using you.

I seen a video. Somebody sent me a video this morning in my email, and it was a Kirk Franklin, and he was talking to Shannon Sharp, and they were talking about paying for everything. And then you see these people talking about, don’t go 50 50 and all of that. If the kids are old enough to go to school full time, I’m not going for it. She’s an unproductive woman.

An unproductive woman if she is not in some way, shape or form utilizing her time. And the only thing that she got to do is just go to the gym and come home and some of y’all chicks don’t even do. No, no, I’m not going for it. You’re not going to sit here and sell me. Nikki says that’s your opinion. You have no clue. Sorry. You’re wrong. How am I wrong? How am I wrong? What am I wrong about? You’ll be more than welcome to be able to call in.

You ain’t even got to be on camera. All of the women that disagree with me that’s saying that I’m wrong. That I’m wrong. What do you mean? I’ve been doing it for the last 16 years with my daughter. I’ve been a present father, attended most of almost all of her stuff. I’m going to her event on Saturday. I make dinner and I don’t even have to. We could doordash.

We could do instacart and had the groceries delivered. I went to the grocery store today. Oh, you don’t believe me? You don’t believe me? You don’t believe me. Yes, I went to the grocery store today. I was at Kroger just this morning. I was just at Kroger this morning. You’re not going to sit here and tell me about how hard it is? I’m not going for it. It’s easy.

It’s very easy. Very easy. And I’m not going to sit here and go for it. And you all need to get out of your feelings. Get out of your feelings. Man up, put your big girl panties on and gird up and get to work and take care of business. I’m not going for none of these social media posts where they keep telling you you ain’t a man if you don’t pay 100% or you don’t do all of this.

Man, listen, you all need to start vetting more effectively and stop letting them finesse you. Don’t let a woman finesse you into thinking that you supposed to do more and make you overcompensate and take care of whatever it is that you need to take care of outside of what it is that she was already doing if she not able to take care of herself before you got there.

You are not Superman. You are not meant to save them. They are a grown human being and they have rights and they advocated for it and they advocating against updating family court laws and they want to leverage all of this information and do what they want to do and say equal pay and all of this stuff. Let her be able to pull her own weight. It is not your responsibility to pull her weight.

It’s not. I’m telling you it’s not. And again, I’ve been married for 19 and a half years. 19 and a half years. Stop letting people tell you it’s your responsibility to take care of another grown child. It’s not. I’m not impressed. You’re not going to sit here and tell me that, oh, my God, it’s so difficult or whatever. No. By the time that the whole house was done, I didn’t have to live stream last night.

I was in the bed before 09:00 p. m. Last night because I said, listen, I’m getting up early tomorrow. I can’t wait. I was so excited. And listen, I love, come on, it’s Friday. Can I just be candid? I love sex. I love sex. Listen, I bust it down. I get it in the third leg is third leg and it’s beautiful. You know what I’m saying? We eating fruits and vegetables and pineapples and strawberries and all of that fruit based diet.

I’m in a great space, but I could not be more excited to go to bed early with no obligations last night. And sex is not an obligation, but it is something that just becomes a part of your daily routine. And I’m going to just tell you, I was incredibly, I get to go to bin it had to be knocked out by nine. Was in the bed. 903 I was gone.

I was sleeping with my legs all across the bed like this. I ain’t have to stay on and I got a huge bed, my bed. I’m spread out. Don’t even have to wake my daughter up. She’d be ready for school. She’d be up ahead of time. We jump in the car, go zoom, zoom, zoom, go. Take care of business, drive by, plot my day out, take care of it.

I’m already set. My whole afternoon, I’m like, let’s get it. You going to sit here and tell me how difficult it is? Fellas, fellas, fellas, don’t be in a rush. Don’t be in a rush. And again, I am in a blissful situation. But I’m just saying that whatever state that you’re in, enjoy it. Don’t be in a rush to chase down, oh, man, I got to hurry up and get married.

Look, you get married on your own timeline and enjoy whatever state that you’re in, enjoy whatever state that you in, don’t worry about it. Don’t let nobody pressure you. Don’t let these chicks feel like they going to finesse you. Don’t believe that you got a limited amount of options and oh, my God, I have to only pick between these two women and both of them are trash. No, throw them in the trash because that’s where you got them from.

And then go out and continue to improve your life. And then when the right opportunity present itself, it’s going to show itself and it’s going to be for you. You don’t have to rush into it. Lay out in the bed, spread out. Spread ego. Sleep in an x. Go in an x and have a good time. And don’t worry about being pressured by nobody because they out here finessing you all.

You all are women. You all are finesse you a finesse. Keep talking about being a single mom. I don’t want to hear that. I don’t want to hear it. You’re not going to finesse me. You’re not going to finesse me. I slept like a baby last night. .