➡ This text emphasizes the importance of financial independence and planning for the future. It suggests that relying solely on one source of income can lead to problems if that income is lost. The author also discusses gender roles and survival instincts, suggesting that women may have more options for survival than men. The text concludes by stating that economic downturns can put strain on relationships, highlighting the need for financial stability.
➡ The success of a relationship depends on what hardships you can endure together. Many relationships end due to financial issues rather than infidelity. It’s important to not put all your trust in your partner, but rather in a higher power or belief. The endurance and ability to face tough times together is what makes a relationship last.

Like, are we really prepared in the event that we was to lose our job, or we was to lose our main source of income, would you be able to still pivot without busting it down for a real one, or are you going to be in the alley sucking some money? I hate to put it to you like that, but I’m asking a question. I’m not telling y’all that y’all need to put up five years worth of income. What I am telling you is that, are you interdependent on your main source of income, and are you going to be sucking money in the alley? I gotta be.

I gotta. Come on, somebody gotta wake up, because you’re watching this on autopilot, and you just think that I’m here for your entertainment, and you ain’t doing nothing. Are you going to suck money in the alley, or are you cool? Are you good? Are you still going to have some self-respect about yourself? No? Are you going to turn into a Y in, or are you going to go back to the thing that you used to be, or are you going to be okay? You’re going to have a level of self-respect about yourself. Hey, kick it in with a chef.

Kick it in with a chef, you know what I’m saying? Because you know, alleys, they don’t have no bathrooms in there. You can’t wipe your mouth off. You can’t wipe your mouth off of none of that. You just gotta take it. You know what I’m saying? And hopefully it don’t get on your shirt. We have to be better stewards with our resources. I’m not telling you you can’t enjoy life. I’m telling you you need to spend just as much of your resources preparing and planning for your future. Or any event that something would happen, and I don’t believe in savings accounts.

I only rock with brokerage accounts, and I only rock with income producing assets. So it’s a little bit different for me. Want me to take it a step further? This is where gender roles come in, because it’s okay for a woman to suck a little bit in order to survive. If I had my bail out, hit it. You as a man, you can’t go and put your face in another man’s lap in order to survive. You gotta do something. You gotta do some prepping. You gotta do some planning. It’s okay for a woman to hitch herself to the man that’s going in the direction that she going in.

She pretty. She gonna make it. You gonna have to figure it out. I’m just gonna keep it real. Nobody is gonna hold a woman accountable for sucking dick. Nobody is gonna hold a woman accountable for hitching themselves to the new man that’s going in the direction. If you listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, Linda. You’re going to have to, you’re gonna have to think differently about this thing, okay? You’re gonna have to think differently. She has, she has income producing assets on her body. She’s going to figure it out. That’s what women do. Women are better survivalist than, than men.

Tell her to stand up. Look at your girl. Go look at your girl right now. She may be watching with you. You may have a picture of her in your phone. She might have even sent you a nasty picture of her. How she look because she feeling good about herself. She’s got a warm place to come home to. The refrigerator is full. The water works. There’s no water pressure taken away from the water pressure. Everything works good. So she felt compelled to send you a naked photo. What happens when it’s cold outside? When it’s cold outside? All of a sudden all of the photos gonna stop, right? Because she don’t want to get naked when it’s cold.

She got the cover on. She bundled up. She got on four layers of clothes. She gonna stick to that. Most women will ride it out with you. They ride or die. You know what? I’m with you for the next six months. I’m with you for the next six months. Then Anton gonna pull up. Five, 10, 15, 20, 25. I ain’t even got $40 on me. So you say you cold, huh? I got $30. You know what I’m saying? Then I’m gonna pull up. You know your work, Cynthia. Oh, that’s so stupid. Because you know what happens? You know what happens? Survival instincts kick in.

That’s when she started winning her options. Hey, you got the new iPhone? And I’m gonna say, I ain’t got the new iPhone. I got two of them. I got the, I got the orange and the blue. What color you want? What do you mean, what color I want? She sitting there with an iPhone 11, iPhone 7. You know what I’m saying? She got the iPhone 7. She watching us in 720p involuntarily, watching the Millionaire Morning Show in 720p. What you think she gonna start? Her mind gonna start wandering. She going to work, no money, no furlough.

It’s like throwing it in a black hole. And then she give her paycheck to you and that shit just go out the window. You told her, you know what, baby, I got this play. I’m about to make it shake. You went to the casino, you threw the dice and you came up craps. Now you ain’t got no money. Let her go, my nigga. Let her go. She not yours no more. She all of ours. That’s our chick, not your chick. That’s our chick. That’s our chick. Let her go. She got survival skills. She has things on her and in her that will allow for her to be able to thrive and survive through the pandemic.

Now for us, us men. And this is this is honest to God grown folks conversation. For us men, we got to approach life differently. We can’t, we can’t, we can’t do it the same way that everybody else do it. We got to do it differently. We got to approach this thing as though our life depends on it, because we can’t do the same thing that women do. We have to approach this thing like ain’t no another man. I can’t go to another man and say, Oh my God, save me. It’s a pandemic. I can’t do that.

I can’t do that. You can’t send your chick to the food pantry line and then I zoom up. And then I noticed you from back in the day. Oh, what’s up, Judith? I’m making up a random name. What’s up, Judith? Hey babe. Oh, nice running into you. She dusty, her hair ain’t done, her makeup. She don’t feel like a woman no more. She on her way to the food pantry line. I see her on the side of the road. I was about to drive by, but I just so happened to notice that somebody that I ran into from back in the day.

I’m not going to help you change your tire though. I’m going to call AAA. You know what? I got a, I got a buddy on AAA. Let me make sure that I get you straight. I make a move. I make a couple of phone calls. Bing bam. Get her a rental car for the day because I didn’t know she had a man. She ain’t tell me she had a man because she not trying to tell me that you her man no more. Why would she tell me that you’re her man? Hey, how you doing? How you been? So how’s, you know, I see this situation.

Don’t worry about this girl. We can get this fixed. How’s it going? How’s everything been? Oh, just trying to figure it out. She say, Oh, you know, I’m in a relationship now. Oh, I’m just trying to figure it out. You know what? Let’s, I got to get out of here. I’m, hey, wait a minute. Um, let’s exchange phone. Listen, let me exchange phone numbers. She don’t want to pull out her iPhone three here. Just, just text this number. You know what I’m saying? She still got to go to the pool pantry. Get you some food. Get y’all some food.

Hopefully. You know what I’m saying? Now, now y’all not in line no more. You know. That’s how it goes. That’s how it goes. You one full pantry entry away from losing your cheek. Because let me tell you what this shut down. Let me tell you what this shut down is doing. And listen, you don’t, you may not believe me. Let me get this off the screen. I got to have a real conversation with my people right now. Let me tell you what this shut down is doing. You may not believe me. You may not want to admit it.

But this shut down is having people question their relationships. They rethinking their life. The shut down is questioning people’s relationships. They’re rethinking their life. Because they’re like, wait a minute. I didn’t know that I signed up for this. Everybody. And I tell people that are in relationships. Everybody. Everybody is on point when everybody is doing well. It’s when you’re not doing well. When things start to go a little haywire in the economy. Will your relationship stand to test the time or when people start to question whether or not they pick the right person? Your relationship, the success of a relationship is based off of what you can endure.

That’s what they’re not telling. Uncle Anton is going to tell you the honest to God truth. Success of a relationship is based off of what you can endure. Financially, most relationships don’t even break up over infidelity. We don’t even know when these hoes is cheating. Half of them is out here busting it down for a real one. Or at least anticipating it. They know they don’t bust it down for a real one. Probably within the next six months. They just still they haven’t did it yet. So they still holding on to this. But you know what? Most women want a nigga to mess up so that they can go and fuck up so they can leave.

They want it. They just waiting on one financial opportunity or one the rest moment to find themselves in a situation because they need to out. They don’t even want to be there no more, but you’re such a good man. You just ain’t got yourself together financially. The endurance is what holds a relationship. Most people are one paycheck away, not from losing your career, from losing your hope. You’re not listening to me, bro. You’re not listening to me. She wanted to cheat. She thinks she’s doing you a favor by not cheating because she feels as though you’re financially cheating on her by having her to contribute into the household.

That is the problem with people that are going 50 50 is that women don’t feel as though they owe you any loyalty because they only 50% in. They only are they one foot in one foot out. One foot in one foot out. It’s a man that’s going down this street. And it’s a woman that’s going down. No, I’m talking physically. I’m talking literally. It’s a man that’s going down Woodward and a woman that’s going down Graham River for the people that’s here in Detroit. She’s. One turn, one right turn away from cheating. One right turn away from cheating.

Now, they don’t think like that when they feeling good. They’re not willing to risk it off. Fuck that. I got a good man. You see these views? Put her at the 10 person table with the views. You want to see the 10 person table? I’ll show you the 10 person table. Put her at the 10 person table. See the 10 person table with the views and all of this shit. See all of that 360 views or the whole city and shit. She not going nowhere nigga. And you and you breaking her down. You buzz putting her head in a couch.

She not going nowhere. That’s not that’s not a that’s not an art installation. That’s a that’s a 85 inch TV. My my walls are incredibly big. So it makes it seem like the TV is small. This is grown man furniture. This is $40,000 furniture that you see right here. You know what I’m saying? It’s different when you leave and say, you know what? I’ll be back in a couple of days. I got to go take care of some business. I don’t go nowhere. You stay right here. You ain’t got to go nowhere. You just stay right here.

I know that you you know what you lock the door, right? Just sit here. Sleep in the bed. We be cool. They not. They not. It’s a it’s different. But when you start to say, you know what, babe? And women don’t understand how broken hearted we be when we got to come home and say shit. I got fired from my job or that’s when they just always say that that dumb shit. They say, I got laid off today. I just don’t know if I’m gonna get my unemployment because you know, you don’t get unemployment if you get fired, right? You know, you don’t get unemployment if you get fired.

So when we got to come home and we really having this conversation in the back of your mind, you’re trying to figure out where the loyalty is. That’s when niggas start getting angry and they start going to certain podcasts that don’t make sense to them. And these bitches, these hoes ain’t loyal. These hoes ain’t loyal. Would you disagree with me, equal opportunity smoke? What am I saying? That’s all. Cynthia Haynes says, I ain’t going nowhere. That’s what they all say. That’s what they all say. That’s what they say. That’s what they all say. That’s what they all say.

Hallelu. Hallelu. Relationship. Relationship. How do you know if your relationship is going to last? It depends on what your tolerance is to endure through tough times. That’s what it is. Either or. Either or. How do you know? Whether or not a relationship is going to last. It’s your ability to be able to endure. I’m telling you the truth, bro. I’m telling you the truth. So what should men look for in a wife if they all going? Well, it depends on what you need at the time. It depends on what you need at the time, big dog.

It’s an individual circumstance, all right? So individual circumstance. A lot of women feel like they outgrowing. They do. Oh, my God. That’s because she’s been exposed to other dudes. Let’s get into a bag. You know what I’m saying? This is what it is. It is what it is. What I would say for most guys is stop putting so much. Stop putting so much stock in a woman, bro. That’s the thing that you’re going to have to have to really understand. When you. I say this all the time and I’m going to move over to the next subject.

I say this all the time. What do I tell y’all when they jump on the panels, when they jump in my comments, when they say all of this dumb shit all the time as a man that has been married for almost 22 years? What do I say to y’all? I only answer to God. My stock is in God. I don’t put any stock in anybody except for God. That is the thing that has kept me and my whole situation has been ideal because I am not tripping off of no woman. Now, that don’t mean that I don’t love you.

I love you with all of my heart and I’m always make sure that you’re good and taken care of. But if you think that I’m putting my stock as a man for women is different for women is different as a man. My my allegiance is to God. So I cannot be hurt. I cannot be tripping. I’m not tripping off of it. I understand the game. I understand that this is this is this is a simulation. This is a test. And so my test is to be loyal to God. But I don’t think that anybody anybody is above doing anything.

Now, does that mean that they’re going to do it? Absolutely not. I’ve been I’ve been blessed. I’ve been incredibly blessed to not have been in a situation where I have to suffer the fate and the woes of what a woman does. But it’s because I played a game how it’s supposed to be played. Now, all the y’all put that’s why you fucking a crash out dummy. That’s why you a crash out dummy because the minute that she do something that don’t make sense to you. Oh, bitch, I put all my stock in you. Now you want to curse her out because she belongs to the game.

You couldn’t see it because you were so googly add and you wasn’t operating with a real life view and perspective of what life is supposed to be. So now you broken heart. I understand that this is the way that the game go. I’m not tripping off a no cheek. I love them. And so you don’t want to be loved no more. Now, thankfully, I’ve had people in my life and I’m talking about all women, mother, children, whatever. I’ve had people in my life that has never turned on me. And that’s when I love that. And I love it.

And they let that they get a blessing. They’re blessed as a result of it. But don’t think for one second for one second that I’m not a hundred percent girded up a hundred percent. I don’t put no stock and no woman, bro. I put my stock in God. When you say, hey, hey, answer, how do you find? How do you find a woman that’s going to stick with you? They’re going to stick with you until they don’t. I trust you until I don’t until you prove to me. Otherwise, this is what the situation is.

I love you until you until I don’t until you give me a reason not to. I take everything. Listen, that’s my life philosophy. I’ll take everything at face value. I’ll take everything at face value. I don’t trip off of nothing. It is what it is. It is what it is. Protect yourself as much as you can. Love people according to how it is that they asked you to love them. And you get what you earn. [tr:trw].

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