➡ Starting a business might seem like a way to control your own schedule, but it’s often more demanding than a regular job. Being an entrepreneur means working hard, often more than a regular 9 to 5 job, and there’s no guarantee of success. Despite the challenges, entrepreneurs create jobs and contribute to the economy. However, they often face criticism and demands for more taxes, even though they’re already investing a lot back into their businesses and communities.
➡ The text discusses the challenges and sacrifices of being a business owner, including increased costs and less personal time. It emphasizes that success often requires relentless dedication and hard work, which can lead to stress and a lack of sleep. The author also suggests that many successful women are supported by men, and that love can be a financial loss. Lastly, the text highlights the importance of being prepared for the costs associated with blessings, such as owning a business or having children.
➡ The speaker argues that women who focus heavily on their careers, especially those in high-ranking positions, often neglect their personal appearance and health due to stress and lack of time. On the other hand, women who prioritize self-care and relaxation, often supported by others, tend to look and feel better. The speaker suggests that this lifestyle choice can lead to a healthier and more balanced life.

Whenever I see people say stuff like, oh man, you know, I would, I need to start my own business and stuff like that because I want to control my own schedule and do what I want to do. I remember it was a video of a woman that said she need, she can’t talk to a guy that got a 9 to 5 because he can’t control his own schedule. And the dude need to be able to move around. Whenever she move around, she want to go on vacation and to go on vacation, all of that. And I was thinking to myself, when she was, when she was doing that video, I don’t even think that I did a reaction to that video, but I was thinking to myself, when she did that video, don’t you know that when you talk to an entrepreneur, and this is, I’m gonna tell you for the ladies and I’m gonna tell you for the fellas, and then we gonna get into the show.

When you talk to a person that works for themselves, 19 times out of 20, I’m not even gonna say nine out of 10, because nine out of 10, that reduces it to 90%. I need to up it to at least 95% of all entrepreneurs. 95, 19 out of 20. I don’t know if they taught you all that in math class, but we don’t have a little bit of a math session. 19 times out of 20, it’s harder to spend time with a person that is an entrepreneur, like a true entrepreneur, not a hobby, not somebody that’s, you know, just trying to get their business up and running and they doing it part time.

I’m talking about somebody that lives and dies, does it for a living. You eat what you kill, and the only way that you go and get it is you getting out there to get it. It’s 10 times harder to deal with a person that runs their own company, runs their own businesses, is dependent on themselves as a spouse or as a person that is in a relationship with that type of person than it is dealing with the person that works a 9 to 5 for all of the people, for the guys that think that you’re gonna free yourself up and that you’re going to be able to do what you want to do when you want to do it.

You, you surely are. You’ll be poor, you’ll be poor, you’ll be, you’re better off getting a regular job that gives you structure. You can get weekends off. You can make sure that you’re at home by 5:30. You can play video games as much as you want to Play it if you want, if you want work, life balance. But the trade off is that you don’t get to be super rich or you don’t get to have the opportunity. Because see, that’s what real entrepreneurship is. It’s not that you’re going to get rich. It’s not that you’re going to be successful.

You’re not guaranteed anything. You’re, you’re guaranteed that if you don’t eat or if the people don’t respond to your product that you can go bankrupt. You’re guaranteed that you can put all your money into it and it still won’t be successful. Entrepreneurship capitalism in the United States of America is the opportunity to take a chance to possibly be successful. And then you still got to deal with politicians that’s sitting there talking about tax the rich. When I see these fat back liberals with pink hair laying on a, on a fat backs in a, in a park in New York that’s funded by the 1% and everything that they see around them, all of the infrastructure and everything is funded by the 1%.

And they’re sitting there eating their fat back donuts. And I don’t know, they don’t do anything every day but their entire lifestyle, the opportunity to do the things that they’re doing, to lay their fat backs in a park and fish for, fish for change inside of the water fountains, that is funded by the 1%. When I see them laying around. And then here’s the tripped out part about it. This is the great part about it. An entrepreneur gets the opportunity to try to come up with funding, try to market themselves effectively, work their ass off. Most entrepreneurs are working at least 80, 90, 100 hours a week.

And you have the opportunity to possibly be successful. And then you then give jobs and you create an economy and you create a space where other people are able to feed their families. And then you have people that will sit there and say, hey man, you need to pay more of your fair share. I don’t see you working more than my fair share. I don’t see you hustling. I don’t see you taking a chance. I don’t see you grinding. I don’t see you taking flights from coast to coast. You know what I like to do the most? I like to watch basketball games in person.

You know how many basketball games I’ve been to this year? Pistons is number one in the East. It’s the greatest time to be a Pistons fan. In the city of Detroit. We just destroyed the Knicks. Beat them by 30. We doing incredibly well, number one in the east. ESPN is talking about us. And I probably been to maybe three, four games total. I got a season ticket package. You know, who gets to enjoy it? You know, gets to enjoy it. All of my people get to enjoy it. They all be at the game. My brothers, friends, they hit me.

Oh, man, it was an awesome game. Everybody else gets to enjoy your, your fruits of your labor. I was talking to my daughter yesterday and she was like, dad, you, you really take care of everybody. My, listen, a large portion, not my entire family, I have a big family, like extended family, right? A large portion of my family depends on me for their housing, for their food, for their vehicle transportation, all of that stuff. Real men don’t complain about the grind that they have to put in. And guess what? Everybody depends on you. And I was talking to my daughter and she said, everybody is dependent on you to be successful.

I said, this is what real men are about. I said, you know, you’re old enough to understand it now. You get it why I work so hard. You know, a lot of times children or younger people or even spouses and relationships, they’re like, just spend more time. Just spend more time with me. I don’t have no time to spend with you. I’m limited. I’m capped on what I can do when I’m around you, what I can do when I’m around you. And so, you know, a lot of people keep saying that. Same old rhetoric. You got these senators like Bernie Sanders, who has never in his life worked a regular job, not one time.

This talk for a living. He ain’t nothing but a content creator. Most of these senators, the Jasmine Crockus, the Bernie Sanders, the AOCs, they talk for they content creators, bro. You know what their job is to fundraise. They’ll sit there and say that you funding they they salary and they’ll tell you that you ain’t paying your fair share and you killing yourself every day. You hustling, grinding flights here, flights there. Employees dealing with people and their emotions, trying to get teams together, right? Taking in consideration everybody else and what they got to deal with. You know who I get to go to and cry and complain to? God.

Don’t nobody care about what I’m thinking. Ain’t nobody checking for me and nobody reprogramming my sleep schedule and all of that type of stuff. Ain’t nobody trying to figure out I get to go to God. That’s it. Is is God. Hey, God, this is what’s happening. How should I handle this then? It’s me, then it’s everybody else that you got to take care of and make sure that they straight and. And the complaints is never gonna stop. You’re never going to spend enough time, you’re never going to have enough money. You’re never going to have enough money because you want to do more.

You want to make sure. And I ain’t even talking about money to do what you want to do. I’m talking about money to take care of the community. You want to build more housing, you want to make sure you feed more families, you want to contribute more, you want to make sure that all of your people have more. You want to get better experiences to people. You want to make sure your employees is paid more. You want to pay them the most that, that they’ve ever had in their entire life. You want to create an experience to where you take care of everybody else and you literally put yourself last.

But the only thing that they highlight is Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Larry Ellison and Tim Cook. Look at how much CEOs make, man. The average CEO only pays himself probably less than a hundred thousand dollars a year. The average CEO cannot pay himself as much as they could because they are too busy reinvesting back into the company, reinvesting back into the people making sure that everything is taken care of. And most of their business expenses are continuing to balloon. Because as inflation and as the economy goes up and as the cost of money goes up, your cost as a business owner go up too.

Your costs as a business owner goes up with it. You don’t get to make excuse. When I take a flight over to the west coast, that comes out of my pocket. Nobody cares about whether or not you. Hey, hey, listen, you got to take a flight. You got a four and a half hour flight. What you gonna do? Well, still gotta get these videos out. Still, still got to take care of this business. Still had to go over and look at the real estate. Still had to go over there and take care of this, still had to take care of that.

Nobody cares. And then, and then you still got to have a relationship. And guess what? When you’re dealing with a relationship, oh my God, I don’t care. This is, this is this. Let me tell y’ all what women say. I don’t care about this stuff. I only want more time with you. Well, listen, time is finite. I don’t have enough of it. So here’s some more stuff. Keep yourself occupied, please. I want to spend my time caught between a rock and a hard place. Now get poor, become poor and have all the time in the world to spend with her.

You’re just not self motivated. I hear it from people on the Internet all the time. I need a guy to match my energy. I need a guy that’s gonna go to places that I. You don’t, you don’t know. You don’t know nothing about this life. You don’t know nothing about this life. This ain’t for you. I see. Most women are fake entrepreneurs, bro. Most women’s businesses are funded by men that continue to try to keep them happy. All of their little restaurants, a little flower shops, all of their little boutiques and businesses. It’s a losing operation.

All you doing is continuing to try to make it seem like she a boss chick so that she can take some pictures for the grammar and impress her friends. She ain’t doing nothing. Everything that they got, all of these women that y’ all see as boss chicks, that’s a, that’s a man behind that. Somewhere somehow they on the plane, they first class in it, they having a good time. They, oh my God, look at me. G wagon. That’s a, it’s a, it’s a man somewhere or men plural, somewhere that’s funding that lifestyle. Would you think she buy her own stuff? You think she started her own business? That’s a money losing operation for love.

That’s what love is. Love is a money losing operation. That’s why when, when dudes is running up a bag and taking care of business, let that man move around and do what he got to do. So he got a little, couple little holes over there, got a couple little scallywags over here. Don’t trip, don’t trip. Don’t even trip. Don’t even trip. You’re a money losing operation. Don’t even worry about it. Let that man move around. How he gotta move around. He already stressed out. He already stressed out. Listen, listen. I cannot give you any more honest to God truth than that.

Right, right there. Regular people have regular options because they do regular, irregular, abnormal, excellent people. They have abnormal, excellent options but they suffer. It’s always going to be a pendulum. It’s always going to be a balance. Somewhere in there it’s going to be a balance. You won’t. You want baseline, you’re going to get baseline, you’re going to get baseline lifestyle. You’re going to get nine to five, you’re going to come home every day and that’s just the life. You get you a Honda Accord, maybe five, six years old. If you don’t want no debt. You’re gonna have to probably take out student loans for your kids in order for them to go to school.

And they gonna, you gotta hope that one of them becomes successful so they can supplement your lifestyle when they get older. You want an abnormal, crazy, better than average crypto arena, first class all the time. Daughters, kids, everybody got cars, clothes, opportunity jobs. He’s not a regular guy. Stop trying to place him in the regular guy’s shoes. There’s going to be some abnormal activities. He thinks differently. He, he chases greatness. He don’t sleep because he can’t sleep. Because the only thing you think about. You know what I was dreaming about last night? I couldn’t even go to sleep.

I went, I went to bed at 4:30am Eastern Time and we about to get into the show, just waiting for y’ all to gather in. I went to bed at 4:30am Eastern Time and you know what? I could, you know, I was thinking about man numbers over here. Gotta do this schedule timeline and eventually you think yourself to sleep. And this is the honest to God truth. I tire myself out thinking, you know what I woke up with? Honestly, when I woke up this morning, I had my budget on my phone and I was figuring it out.

When I woke up this morning, I was literally going over, over January numbers so I can make sure this stuff is structured for the end of the month. And I was like this. And it seemed like five minutes later because you know when you’re tired time go like that. Even though you asleep for three hours, four hours, five minutes later, the line was like. And you know what happens when alarm go off? It’s almost like people are waiting for your alarm to co off to call. You get thudder calls. This person got a problem. Hey, what’s going on? Hey, are you up? Hey, this has happened.

Hey, this is this, this and that and it’s just normal life. It’s normal life. It’s nothing that you complain about. I’m very thankful, I am very blessed. I would not trade my life for anything in the world. I do not ever in my life want to ever have to depend on a 9 to 5 to survive. It’s a blessing. And. It’s life. It’s just life. You’re never ever going to please everybody. Nobody is ever going to be completely satisfied with it. But it’s just life. It’s life. So be careful what you wish for, wish for, be careful what you ask for and make sure that you prepare to even be able to handle the blessing that God gives you.

It’s a blessing to be able to take care of other people, but it’s going to take a toll. It’s a blessing to be able to have your own business and work relentlessly, but it’s going to cost you sleep. It’s a blessing to be able to have children, but there’s going to forever be able to be a cost that’s associated with making sure that they’re taken care of. And you always going to be worried about it, you know what I’m saying? So that’s everything that you get is going to come with a cost. Ask yourself, how much are you willing to pay? That’s all I’m saying.

That’s all I’m saying. All right. Ask yourself how much you’re willing to pay. I’m in the gym now, right? Almost every day. I’m paying attention. I’m very dedicated to what I eat. I try to work out at least three or four times a week. All of that, right? But here’s the thing. If I wasn’t an entrepreneur, because you can go back and look at some of my old videos, if I wasn’t an entrepreneur, I would already be dog walking. You want to come to fitness? That’s what my, that’s what my type of dedication is. The only reason that I’m not already beating you in that is because I’m relentless when it comes to the pursuit of my goals.

And so a lot of times I put everything else on the back burner and, and I zero in and I tunnel vision that. But if I just lived a regular everyday life and I went to the 9 to 5 and I just did 9 to 5, you would be dog walked all day long. The only reason that you fit is because you poor. Most of you. I’m, I’m just telling you the truth. Most that spend all of their time in the gym are poor. Not all, not all, not all. I’m I’m just. Listen, listen, listen, listen.

Most that spend all of their time in the gym. Most, not all. Don’t get offended. It’s. It’s not applicable to you if you’re not one of them. I’m telling you that most niggas that spend all day in the gym, they don’t have a pot to piss in. What, you think that if Bill Gates or even Elon Musk dedicated himself in a way that if he didn’t have Tesla and was obsessed with going to Mars, you think you would beat this nigga? You can’t beat him. He don’t even sleep. He sleep on us on a factory floor.

You don’t change your stripes. You just apply what you do to a different area of your life when you no longer have the capacity to do it. I’m telling you the truth. You don’t change. You don’t sleep more. People think that if you was to trade in your entrepreneur life, that you would automatically start to get more sleep. You don’t change that. You become more obsessive with other things in your life. You have to schedule that. And so it has to be something that is very intentional. It’s not because of a lack of discipline. It’s because you just.

You just don’t have a capacity and you’re coping. Y’ all ready to get started with the show? Okay. All right, so let me break it down for you since that’s so hard for y’, all, since that’s so hard for y’ all to accept. Why do you think that the baddest chicks are not in corporate America? They don’t have their own businesses, they not working 10, 12, 13 hours. Why do you think that most of the chicks that run up a bag, the big lawyers and all of that shit, why you think they frumpy since it’s hard for you to look at it from net lens? All right.

Why do you think that women that are corporate baddies and all of this shit, why do you think that they frumpy? Why do you think that men complain about women that focus so much on their careers and they look frumpy all the time? Maybe you could see, most of the time, guys can’t get it when it. When it’s applicable to guys. And so you have to use a woman as an example that they complain about. They complain about these very same women. I don’t want no women that’s a bad chick or a boss chick. I. I don’t want a woman that focuses on her career.

It’s not that you worried about her career. You don’t like her lifestyle that then reflects on what she looked like. They be stressed the out they. They coping. They don’t have the same amount of time and they moving like men, which they then start to look like them. It’s the honest to God truth. Women that, that chase like men, if they not surgery, it’s like if they not just regularly getting lipo and like that. They up, they up, straight up, Up. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. He said, I seen some baddies in corporate America.

I’m not talking about women that work in corporate America. I’m talking about women that chase greatness, the ones that are up the ladder. When you look at female CEOs, look at any. Look at Mary Barra, right? Mary Barra, the CEO of General Motors. She tired as have. They take drugs, sleeping pills, just to fall asleep at night. They. They have failing relationships, all of that. I’m not talking about a woman that goes to work in corporate America. There’s plenty of people that have a job. I’m talking about women that identify themselves as corporate baddies. They are up.

I’m telling you the truth. I’m telling you the truth. Do you know the women that look the best want to know what the women that look the best want to know what they do? They may have a job to keep them occupied. They getting flown out. They getting flown out. They sitting at home. You know what they do? Let me tell you what they do. It’s the honest to God truth. And I put this on everything. They sleep more. They are fucking babies. They sleep like babies. They take more naps. They sleep for 10 hours, 12 hours a day.

Then they wake up, go to the gym, and then they complain about the fact that they got to do a work from home meeting. They fucking babies. Their bodies is just repairing all day and then they have time to be able to go to the gym. And all they do is nap. Oh, trust me, trust me, trust me. I know. All they do is nap. They just sleep all fucking day. Nap, nap, nap, nap. And I don’t. I ain’t mad at them. They focus on their skincare routines and all of that type of stuff. They are not spending all of their energy, bro.

I know women. I’m on the west coast now. I ain’t got nothing better to do. Ain’t nobody here. It’s just. It’s just 100 me, all right? Right? All I had was drinks. Just drinks. All right? I know women that refuse. And I’ll be telling them like, yeah, that ain’t what you want. You don’t want that life. Refuse to take a promotion because they like, wait a minute. I’m gonna have to do. I’m gonna have to manage people and be dealing with all the. Oh, hell no. Hell no. Hell, hell no to the. No, no, no. Hell to the null.

They. They. They like that. I’m not about to be up Fatty Willis. Fannie Willis. Fani Willis could be a baddie, but she a fatty. And you know why she a fatty? Because she’s stressed the out. That’s why her attitude is bad. That’s why she’s frumpy. That’s why she got a flip neck. Because she used to being in a masculine role. That’s what it is, bro. Y’ all keep saying why black men die early. Why do men die earlier than women? All you do is nap. You got a preservation of organs right there. You’re. You’re a 20 year old and a 40 year old body because you just sleep all day.

That’s why. And I’m. And again, I’m not mad at it, but understand that the dynamics is different. Women that look the best. And I ain’t even talking about, like, how they’re born. I’m talking about how well they’re taken care of. If you ever see a woman out shopping on Rodale Drive or whatever, your major city is, Somerset, Brickell down in Miami, the design district, and you see these women and they getting into these cars is kept. Hoes. All of them hoes is kept. That’s some nigga’s chick. That’s why they won’t talk to you. They like. And 22 seconds in their mind, they’ve already did the cost benefit analysis.

So wait a minute. He trying to holla at me, but this does not meet the expectations of what? My lifestyle. I’m not giving up my lifestyle for you. They be holding on for their life. Oh, God, no, please don’t. No, please, please don’t go. They be holding on for dear life. They not trying to leave that. Taking all of them good naps so that they can go out there and hustle for themselves. You’re talking about. Talking about Willis. Why? So you can sit? So you could have to plan a trip on a spirit flight to a destination that she has to make a sacrifice in and that get everything that she want? You think that is? Anytime she go out of town, she first classing hotel rooms, cars.

I know women that don’t even carry money. I know women that don’t even carry money everywhere they go. It just be all right. I’m taken care of. Okay? What am I do. They’re like babies. They’re like babies. They’re just like babies. Am I saying too much early in the morning for the first 35 minutes. Okay, I’m sorry. We can get. We can get back to the show. I’m sorry. Y’ all ready to get into the show? Make sure you hit a like for the algorithm. Subscribe to the channel and turn on your notifications. They’re just like babies.

Just like babies. Leticia James look like Shrek’s wife on facts. Listen, most women have the capability to at least get to a six from like body wise and care man. These women are out here frumpy as because they have decided that they wanted to live the life of a man.
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