➡ The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-sufficiency, particularly in household chores and personal care. He criticizes those who rely heavily on others for basic tasks like cooking, cleaning, and setting appointments. He encourages everyone, regardless of gender, to learn these skills, arguing that it’s easier than ever with modern technology. He also advises against entering relationships with the intention of fixing the other person, and instead suggests finding someone who meets your expectations from the start.
➡ This text emphasizes the importance of personal hygiene and cleanliness, stating that taking care of oneself is a basic responsibility of every adult. It suggests that maintaining good oral hygiene, keeping your house clean, and washing your clothes regularly can significantly improve your overall appearance and attractiveness. The text also humorously suggests that these simple hygiene practices can give you an advantage in social situations, like Comic Con, where many people might neglect these basics.

I said skip it. My fate is my fate and so I went, I came here, unloaded my, I had to undo my luggage, wash a couple dishes, you know what I’m saying? I made myself some breakfast, threw a couple loads in the washing machine, you know what I’m saying? We’re gonna get things together at home, straighten up, get some files situated how I wanted to get situated, and then I gotta go out and take care of some stuff and be looking at the property. So I’m gonna be dropping a vlog probably tomorrow.

I’m gonna drop a vlog on dark and time tomorrow and we’re gonna get it in. What’s going on y’all? What’s happening? Let me say this also for the fellas because you know I gotta get some spring cleaning going on in here and I want to make sure that everything is as tidy as I want it to be. Y’all gotta learn how to do for yourselves also. Having a wife or cleaners and stuff is a nice to have but sometimes I just want to get in there and get it done myself. Cleaners come in and they do the dusting, they’ll do the windows, they’ll sweep, mop, dishes, they do the general stuff but every once in a while, every month or so, I gotta get in there and I gotta make sure that it’s done myself.

You know what I’m saying? And it’s like when I was, the way I was raised, I was raised to never have to depend on a woman. I know guys in real life, I know guys in real life that older guys, not, I don’t know about the younger guys but I know some older guys in real life that cannot even exist. They don’t even know how to make their own lunch. It’s the craziest thing I’ve ever seen in my life. I know women and wives that have to make sure that they prep stuff so that their husband is straight if they decide to go and visit their mother in a different state or if they decide to go and do this or they decide that they, they have to, the man just be like a bumbling idiot.

I didn’t even know that that existed. I didn’t even know that that existed. I didn’t know that there were men that did not know how to wash clothes or did not have to do dishes or did not have, know how to do dishes that don’t know how to clean up their own bathroom, that don’t know how to iron their own clothes and I don’t know if they just trying to be like, oh man, I don’t know what I’m doing but it is guys that, I know guys that have been married since they were 18 years old and again, they’re older than me and they have no clue on what to do.

They don’t know where the dish washing liquid is. They don’t know where the vacuum is. They don’t know none of that stuff. It’s crazy. So my message to you before we get started in the show today is learn how to take care of yourself and it doesn’t mean that you can’t let a woman or let your, let somebody else be able to add value but you should know how to get yourself together. You should know how to get yourself together. Real talk. Kay Cooper said that’s pretty sad. I taught my son how to cook and clean early.

I don’t understand y’all. So and I be thinking to myself because that’s the older generation because I’m talking about guys that’s like in the 50s, 60s, whatever, maybe even approaching 70 some of them and I’m looking at these newer people and I’m like, wait a minute dog, you don’t know how to wash your ass. You confused on how to set your own dentist appointment because like when we have conversations on app dollars and stuff and you know we may ask the question well what would a woman do in order to bring value into a man’s life and stuff like that and the conversation be so basic and the women be like, oh man, no, I could set your appointment, I could set your dentist appointments and set up your doctor’s appointments and stuff.

I got a calendar. What you’re talking about? When you leave the dentist, they literally say, hey, so do you want to set up your next appointment? And you say, sure, you get out your calendar on your phone, you set your next appointment, you set up an alert, you know what I’m saying? So that you’re not, it don’t sneak up on you and you set your appointment. When you go to the doctor and you, you know, getting out and you check it out or whatever and you need to go to the doctor at least twice a year, minimum once, at least twice a year.

They ask you, do you want to set up your next doctor’s appointment? They give you a little card, they give you a little card, or you could just get your little mobile device and set your appointment. What do you mean you don’t know how to cook for yourself? So everything that you eat, because that’s expensive, I can afford to do go out to the restaurant every day, DoorDash and all of that stuff. What you mean to tell me that if you just so happen to get hungry, you have to do DoorDash, you have to go get something to eat, or you’ve got to have a woman that come in and cook and clean, dog, I can do my own.

And here’s the worst part about it. It’s so easy now. We have technology that makes it easier than ever. You can talk to AI, you don’t even have to set your appointment. You can literally hit the button and tell Apple Intelligence, hey, set this up, do this, order my Instacart. Okay, Instacart, they’re gonna come in, they’re gonna do all the grocery shopping for you. All you got to do is go on the app and say the stuff that you need. Hey, I need broccoli, I need lettuce, tomatoes, eggs, you know what I’m saying? Some of y’all like that little paper turkey bacon.

I myself preferably like the pork bacon, you know what I’m saying? And you order your stuff and you get everything that you need. It’s so life is easy. The way that we complain, and then we don’t talk about student loans, Trump just recently did a press thing where he actually said that he talked to China, we’re gonna go into Stephen A. Smith, we’re gonna go into Shannon Sharp, we’re gonna talk about all of that stuff. But I guess my point that I’m making is that I believe that every, and this goes for the women too, women should be able to be adults and take care of themselves, pay their own bills, do all the basic necessities.

You should not need a man to survive. Now, if y’all both add value into each other’s lives, and you know what I’m saying? She do things better, or you do things better, or y’all want to move into a traditional relationship, it doesn’t mean that you’re supposed to die if somebody leaves a relationship. You know what I’m saying? Like, listen, stop getting with these broke people. Ladies, stop getting with broken people looking to fix them. Fellas, stop getting with broken ladies in order to try to fix them so that you can try to make them what you want them to be.

It’s not no work. It’s not a work. One of the reasons that I think that Shannon Sharp is in the position that he’s in is because he is dealing with people or dealing with women that are not on his level. Stop dealing with people that are not sufficient adults. Force people to meet an expectation for themselves first before they get into a relationship with you. You should be able to book your own tickets. You should be able to clean your own house. Your house should not be filthy. You should be able to walk in your house.

Nobody is coming in here and my house is clean. You see that? It’s clean. Clean everywhere. Clean in the whole place. It’s simple. It’s not dirty. Why is your house is dirty? Why are your houses dirty? Whether you’re a man or you’re a woman, I look on there and they’d be like, oh my God, it’s so hard to stay clean. What do you mean it’s hard to stay clean? Why is it difficult to have a clean place? You’re telling me that if you don’t have a woman in your life, that your house is filthy.

That you don’t know how to do business. You don’t know how to wash clothes. You don’t know how to wash yourself up. You don’t know how to, we need to have an etiquette class. Honestly, God, we need to have an etiquette class. We got to have an etiquette class, bro. Seriously. I don’t know why people are living filthy. I can’t, I can’t imagine when I, when I run into people and I see their teeth is grusty and grimy, I ain’t talking about crooked. You know what I’m saying? That’s something. I ain’t talking about crooked teeth, crooked teeth.

That’s a whole other situation. That’s something that you can’t help. You can fix that later when you get a little bit of money, get you some braces, get you some Invisalign. If you really get into the money, you can go and get you some veneers, whatever that is, right? But the cleanliness of your teeth. I know your house is dirty. I know your house is dirty. If you don’t have the wherewithal to brush your teeth, you, you know where in the world you’re going to convince me that you clean your house or that you change your bedsheets regularly.

No way in the world you’re going to convince me that you change your bedsheets regularly. Absolutely not. My closet may get a little discombobulated because I might come in, oh shoot, don’t take off a hoodie, don’t want over there on the hamper, whatever. And so I can take it down to the cleaners or whatever like that. But filthy, listen, unorganized and filthy is two different things, bro. Unorganized and filthy is two different things. So we got to be, you know, I hate to have this conversation, but these are basic conversations that’s not being had.

You should be able to take care of yourself. Every, every adult should be able to take care of themselves. Nobody should be living like a POS, nobody. Nobody should be living like a POS. So yeah, man, that’s what I did. Since I couldn’t get into my studio this morning because my keys was here, I just came here. I’m gonna get some stuff together. I needed to throw it, you know what I’m saying? I need to unpack my suitcase, throw a couple loads in. And you can throw a load in, why in between you working? Okay, so listen, I threw a load in, throw it on quick wash, you know what I’m saying? Throw your tap pot in, throw the little pellets in there so it’ll smell good.

Take it out after however long it takes 45 minutes, put it on the lifespan, put it in the dryer, get your dryer sheets, you know what I’m saying? Get more than one dryer sheet so your stuff smells really, really good when it comes out. That way you ain’t got to douse yourself with cologne. That way you ain’t got to worry about throwing a whole bunch of cologne on you so people be offended at which you can walk around, get you some lotion, get you some soap and water. You’re gonna smell good.

Your clothes don’t smell good. You gonna smell good. Brush your teeth. You good, bro. That’s half the battle. You got you a baddie right there. You like that? You go over to Comic Con? You know, I keep telling y’all, if y’all need the lowest hanging fruit, go to Comic Con. Brush your teeth. You smell good. You go to Comic Con? You beat out 98% of the competition because they’re going to be coming in with their hair all messed up and I have to hurry up and get hurt. They sure not tuck me in.

They’re going to be busted. Head over to Comic Con, get you a little baddie. You’re good. You’re good to go, big dog. [tr:trw].

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